Quite a few of them live their lives like that - enveloped in layers of facades, never showing or sharing their true feeling with their friends and close ones. Convenient I say, and more so for the people they deal with. I may know what you are, but since you deny it yourself, I ve much less burden to stay here and put up with that side of you.
Great arrangement for a sunny day. But I just know from well living a few years of life, that sun doesn't shine too long ever, without scorching, nor can rain be kept at bay forever. Maybe my express-all way of life is not highly rated, I want to see what will happen to your hide-all (or highly compartmentalised) facade, when the clouds come out. Will you rise up to the occasion, or will those friends of yours summon courage enough to let know when enough is enough.
Pretences of a lifetime are not easily broken, so even if I do live in a more uncomfortable world of bare truth and somewhat brutal honesty, I know when I need them my friends will be there in all sincerity and strength, because I have not created walls and blocked out people, I believe in opinions of those who wish me well and welcome it, in fact seek it when I know I need it.
Because they are just not just fair weather friends.
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unfortunately, most people live the lie long enough for it to become the truth, even to themselves, a bit like a personality version of alzheimer's...
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