Thursday, October 25, 2007

Digression

Just letting off some steam….read at ur own risk.

What I hate the most is - people, RANDOM PEOPLE, thinking they are all important, give me lectures, so much lecture, oh the good the bad the right and the wrong . . . . I recently had such an escapade with a close family friend, who almost brought me to tears, made me feel so guilty -as if by just not getting married I am committing such a huge crime against my parents and the whole humanity!

I wish I could just scream out aloud and shut all these people out.

And when I say random I mean so f****** random, people who have never cared to say a "hi" before, or enquired if I am alive or dead, come around expressing their love for me, their concern for my family and ideas and opinions on getting me married.

I can deal with it on my level mostly, I am fine, but I feel genuinely bad for my parents, who have to hear this many times every hour . . . . . . and I so don't know what to then at times. And it is not just I, so many women I know and their parent are similarly harassed by such unsolicited advisors - I de call them devils in disguise!!!

And with the wedding season drawing close, more family gatherings on the cards, it is just gonna get worse. I so hate this emotional blackmailing . . . . .

Get a life folks, and let me have one too.


P.S. I ll try not to post such rants in future, but cant promise anything.

7 comments:

JugHead said...

:)

Anonymous said...

The more random people give me advice on marriage, the more randomly I tell them something between "Mind your own business" and "Fuck off"

--Hyde.

Incognito said...

well i think its a ghar ghar ka story .. and not particularly related to females alone !

manuscrypts said...

*wagging an admonishing finger* you thoroughly misled them with your last post's title :p ....

Confessions of a Born Procrastinator said...

Ah yes!!! The forced into marriage bit... Shud be declared a social evil is wat I say.. Wt's with these busy bodies who jus wanna ruin everyone's luv lives neway??

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Deez said...

tintin :)

hyde yeah whatever !

incognito agreed, but it is more common, more difficult and more stressful for women...... anyways we do sympathies with men who r in the same boat too...

manu i was not expectingly to be taken seriously :)

procrastinator lol

kiran thx :)