The test of marriage begins much before the actual wedding ceremony. It has begun for me. How much you will change, accept change, allow changes, be ready for changes – tests of it all begins right away. How strong will your faith be and how far will it go - is not spared either.
Coz marriage is not just a ceremony; it is a value system we put in place ourselves. And it is upto us to keep its integrity.
On a different note........... talking to somebody in my office today I referred to my fiancé as "my husband". I didn’t realize when I first did that, and when I became aware of it couldn’t go back to calling him the fiancé second time coz referential integrity had to be maintained. (yeah, cldnt help the joke)
Felt funny in a nice way though, “The Husband” !!!! And I wowed at how far we have managed to come over the years.
Touchwood.
Coz marriage is not just a ceremony; it is a value system we put in place ourselves. And it is upto us to keep its integrity.
On a different note........... talking to somebody in my office today I referred to my fiancé as "my husband". I didn’t realize when I first did that, and when I became aware of it couldn’t go back to calling him the fiancé second time coz referential integrity had to be maintained. (yeah, cldnt help the joke)
Felt funny in a nice way though, “The Husband” !!!! And I wowed at how far we have managed to come over the years.
Touchwood.
8 comments:
beautiful post. :-)
hehe! I have started doing that too, mostly while speaking to the many house agents whilst househunting :)
and yes, touchwood :)
Couldn't agree more about it being a value system :)
hey Girl, congragulations, i didnt knwo this, when is the big day?
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OMG! are your serious?? thats the day I got married too! 28th June 08! Congragulations dear and what a lovely co-incidence! Wish you all the happiness :) catch you on facebook to see some details :)
"The Husband"... and referential integrity.. LOL!
on that note.. lets see who does the husbandry now.. haha ;-)
Many Congratulations!
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